At the very moment I have had my period for 4 months. Heavy. Last year I had it from Oct to July heavy. I was anemic. I had to be in the hospital for 3 days because I was hemmoraging. And not one single doctor can tell me what is wrong. I have had so many tests. So many issues. And it is painful. It feels like 7 months of someone punching me in the abdomen and its caused my life to be full of embarrasment and stress due to bleeding so much all the time.
Not to mention the hormones.
Since none of the doctors can tell me what the hell it is, i am seriously considering a hysterectomy. Can anyone tell me the answer to these questions?
1. I have read in some places that you will gain weight but other places say you will lose it. which is it?
2. Do you lose your sex drive completely?
3. And what kind of hormone treatments do they put you on?
See the main symptoms I have are that i guess I produce mere traces of estrogen. So my body doesn't ovulate for months. and all of a sudden it does for 8+ months. I produce more testosterone. I also have a lot of facial hair, dark patches on my arm pits, elbows, and inner thighs. I have an impossible time with depression. And i have always been obese, and can never seem to lose weight even when i legit try my hardest.
Ive been tested for diabetes and all the thyroid stuff. NO ONE CAN TELL ME WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME> HELLLLP!
January 15 2009, 11:15:24 UTC 9 years ago
January 15 2009, 11:17:09 UTC 9 years ago
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January 15 2009, 14:05:25 UTC 9 years ago
Post surgery.
-At present I take no artificial hormones.
-I neither gained, nor lost weight. I find that depends much more on what I eat & how many dance classes I'm teaching/taking a week.
-I have no trouble with my sex drive/sex life. It's AWESOME. (same as previous.)
Best of luck.
January 16 2009, 18:25:50 UTC 9 years ago
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January 15 2009, 15:06:36 UTC 9 years ago
Post surgery, I have gained some weight -- but I believe that's due to my lingering depression and the difficulty it's caused me in being more active. For a few months after my surgery, my sex drive was very low, and sex has felt different for me. That being said, my body is adjusting to its new reality now, and I'm finding things are getting a bit closer to normal over time. I don't take any sort of hormone therapy, but for me that's because my cancer is partly due to exposure to estrogen, and if I were to take hormones they could cause my cancer to recur.
Good luck to you!
January 15 2009, 15:12:57 UTC 9 years ago
My sex drive is actually higher. The hyst was for adenomyosis, and I actually was in so much pain when I had sex that I never wanted to have it. My poor husband was thrilled when that thing came out and I was back to normal again.
May 1 2009, 19:14:35 UTC 8 years ago
January 15 2009, 21:21:19 UTC 9 years ago
To answer your questions-
1. I have read in some places that you will gain weight but other places say you will lose it. which is it? I have lost nothing. I have gained nothing. For me, I think my body just got used to being round, and likes it this way. I was tiny until I was 22, when PCOS slammed down, and I gained 80 pounds in 2 months. I've been round since.
2. Do you lose your sex drive completely? I'm not AS crazy sexual as I was before the hysterectomy, but I think that is because my male hormones settled. I am still very sexual though. So no, I haven't lost mine.
3. And what kind of hormone treatments do they put you on? I'm on the vivelle dot, which is basically a sticker with hormones that seep into the body through the skin. I change it twice a week.
Good luck... it is a tough choice to make, for some.
January 18 2009, 18:49:21 UTC 9 years ago
1. I have actually lost weight, it varies from person to person.
2. Can't answer that one yet, as it hasn't even been 3 weeks since I had mine. If they leave your ovaries, it usually doesn't affect your sex drive as your body still produces hormones.
3. If you keep your ovaries they don't put you on any. Given your age, you probably wouldn't lose your ovaries unless you had ovarian cancer.
Hope this helps at least a little bit!!!
January 24 2009, 18:20:16 UTC 9 years ago
it depends on the person, I had my hyster may 28th 2008 and my weight loss that I had started back in 2003 halted all together I've not been able to get it to budge since the hyster - but not gained any which is good thing
2. Do you lose your sex drive completely?
no, i gained a sex drive after living without it for all of my adult life
3. And what kind of hormone treatments do they put you on?
nun - don't feel like going on them less i have no choice in the matter and so far so good
sorry im about a month behind...
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February 21 2009, 04:34:24 UTC 9 years ago
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No Hysterectomy
Anonymous
March 2 2009, 17:41:24 UTC 9 years ago
Valerie
April 10 2009, 04:27:25 UTC 9 years ago
For me it was the right decision. I kept my cervix and ovaries but at this point my ovaries are failing. I'm still 100% pleased with my decision since my ovaries were all messed up pre-surgery and now I don;t hemorrhage (yay) but I'm looking into treatment for the early (I'm now 30) menopause. One thing to know is that there is a high chance that the surgery even leaving the ovaries will, within 5 years, cause the ovaries to partially or completely fail.
1-I neither lost nor gained weight (I have used Chromium picolinate to help stabilize my metabolism and weight but its tough I know).
2-My sex drive spiked for a bit after surgery (from the first week post for a year or so) and now its about the same as it was but because of my current hormonal mess I'm not having as much (loads of vaginal dryness which sucks but still nothing compared to the old periods).
3-no hormones at the moment.
Best of luck figuring stuff out, its a tough decision to make (I already couldn't have kids so that part was easier an also helped convince the doc). And if you go for the surgery find someone who can do it laproscopically, much faster / easier recovery.
The Functions of the Female Organs
October 4 2009, 02:02:03 UTC 8 years ago
When the uterus is removed women have three times greater incidence of cardiovascular disease than women with an intact uterus. When the ovaries are removed the incidence seven times greater.
There are 22 million women in the United States whose female organs have been surgically removed. Only about 2% were life saving and 98% were elective, a euphemism for unwarranted. Girls and women are not educated about the functions of female organs and they are not informed about the adverse effects of hysterectomy that have been well documented in medical literature for over a century.
Women who might ignore this promotion in an obviously commercial advertisement will be vulnerable to believing there are no adverse effects of the surgery. An article that makes hysterectomy sound simple and inconsequential is dangerous to women.
Read the new book THE H WORD, and find out what the medical literature documents about the well-known consequences, and what women report about the effects of hysterectomy on their bodies, their health and their lives, and read the Adverse Effects Data at http://www.hersfoundation.org.
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This article makes it sound like laparoscopy to perform hysterectomy is simple and inconsequential.
It describes the alleged benefits while not providing the well documented adverse effects. If you watch the surgery being performed on youtube (click on the video for physicians, not the sanitized patient version) you will quickly see that this is highly invasive destructive surgery.
Hysterectomy is the surgical removal of the uterus, a reproductive, sexual, hormone responsive organ that supports the bladder and bowel. Whether the surgery is performed abdominally, vaginally, hands-on laparoscopically or laparoscopically by a gynecologist controlled robot, a hormone responsive sex organ is removed, the vagina is shortened, and there is a loss of support to the bladder and bowel. Women who experienced uterine orgasm before the surgery will not experience it after the uterus is removed.
When the uterus is removed women have three times greater incidence of cardiovascular disease than women with an intact uterus. When the ovaries are removed the incidence seven times greater.
The average weight gain is 25 lbs. in the first year after hysterectomy. The metabolism is slower after a hysterectomy and slower when the ovaries are also removed. So you have to eat less to not gain weight after the surgery, and it's important to have a diet high in calcium and to do weight bearing excercise, like walking or jumping rope.
There's an excellent video to learn about what your female organs are, where they are, and their life long functions. It's "Female Anatomy: the Functions of the Female Organs", at http://www.hersfoundation.org/anatomy